Why is no one talking about the emotional mess we go through in our 20s???
I’m in a hurry.
I seek validation.
I want to impress everyone.
I compare myself to others.
Especially to those who is in my age group ..The one's who making lot of money, And appearing who have it all figured out.
while I’m still figuring out so many things!
In our 20s, we’re told this is the “building phase” of life, but no one talks about the emotional mess that comes with it!
I’m curious about everything. I’m learning whatever I can.
And honestly, I think this happens to most of us in our 20s.
Why? I don’t know.
But over the past few days, I’ve realized something really important—and I’m sharing it with you because you might need to hear this too:
1. Seeking validations is a trap:
To be honest, I often seek validation from others—thinking about what they think about me.
Over time, we forget what we love to do and start seeing ourselves through others’ perspectives.
This happened to me, and that’s why I’m telling you—Instead of doing this just focus on what truly matters to you!
2. Comparing myself with others only brings me down.
Instead of comparing, whenever I feel low, I remind myself of all the things I’ve achieved so far—the things many people still wish they could do.
This simple mindset shift helps.
The two biggest lessons I’m learning and applying now are:
Stop seeking validation.
Stop comparing yourself to others.
Because everyone has their own unique path.
Believe in yourself.✨
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